Brown Boi Self-Love & Resiliency!
The Brown Boi Project hosted a workshop on its mental health model for boys and men of color, one centered on self-care, relationships, and healthy masculinity.
Presenters/Moderators
Erica Woodland
Brown Boi Project
B. Cole
Brown Boi Project
Main Points
- The Brown Boi Project offers leadership retreats twice a year for rising leaders of color ages 17–35. They are a “vehicle for a movement” and so far have trained a total of 150 leaders, organized in 10 cohorts.
- Participants Jonathan, Rico, Carla, and Lex reflected on their retreat experiences.
Key Strategies
- Create a sense of ceremony by knowing that what we do is sacred.
- Draw up and keep a Group Agreement.
- Approach the work with a lightness and have a bit of fun.
Action Steps
- Maintain the “one mic” policy (one person talking at a time).
- Practice active listening.
- Speak from your own experience.
- Don’t put down what other people are saying.
- Hold a safe space and respect confidentiality. “What happens here, stays here.”
- No cell phones.
- Hold one-on-one interactions for growth.
- Hold everyone to their highest self.
Standout Quotes
"Mess stuff up and be brown about it."
"We don’t cosign bullsh**. By doing so, you allow people to sustain things/thoughts you know aren’t cool."
"It is faster to change the body than to change the mind."